BEST FRIEND

Best friend is
someone who always be there for u no matter what
rela digangguin tidurnya walau dini hari
dan selalu bilang "gak, gw ga sibuk kok"
tiap kamu nelpon dan pengen curhat
bahkan seringkali menahan dirinya untuk curhat
hanya karena kamu udah curhat duluan
she/he put u first..

someone not judge you,
siapapun mu, apapun kerjaan mu,
darimanapun asal dan latar belakang mu,
dia selalu welcome dan
bener2 nerima kamu apa adanya
buatnya ga penting kamu pake baju merk apa,
tas kamu keluaran mutakhir apa nggak,
sepatu kamu belinya di luar negri atau di pasar loak
kalian berbeda dalam beberapa hal dan selera,
but u can overcome that differences

someone who may not always be there
when u ask her/him to go hang out
mungkin dia memang ga bisa ada nongkrong2 bareng kamu all the time,
dia ga asik kalau diajak dugem
tapi dia selalu ada saat kamu bersedih dan butuh dukungan,
rela meluangkan waktunya demi kamu

someone who always makes u feel comfort,
yang ngerti perasaanmu
bahkan saat kamu ga ngomong sepatah kata pun
she/he just see right through you...

so,
in this valentine's day...
show her/ him some respect,
even just a simple call just to ask her/him how's her/his day
and say u love them..

Cheers,
=)'che

on V-day 2009

happy v-day, guys...
it's the first time for me to celebrate it alone,
i mean...REALLY alone,
it doesn't mean that single means u're alone
it's not true!
i usually did celebrate v-day when i'm single
and it's fun!

but what i mean is this,
i'm out of nowhere
i am far away from home
from the one i love and from everybody i care about
and cares about me
i got no one to share this day,
this feeling here

but fortunately,
this v-day didn't take a big effect here
coz here...they just didn't celebrate v-day
they said it's just western tradition
they just didn't really care
well, it helps me to overcome this sadness inside

but,
for me..it's become a tradition,
at least i can gather with some friends...
had lunch together,
tells some jokes and stories
share some feelings
then at night we just go out with our boyfriend

there's a few years i celebrate v-day with my boyfriend,
but..because he just not a guy who gives-roses-and-chocolate
so i didn't get one..we just go on dinner, talking and laughing..
but i remember one v-day,
he ask me out..then we go to the cinema (i forgot the movie)
and when we done i saw all the girls hold a rose in their hand
and hold their boyfriend's hand in the other hand
well, i did..hold his hand..but i didn't get the rose,
i didn't sure i want one but then i just spit it out
"i never get a rose on v-day"
as soon as i said it, he run into a store and get me one!
he said " i thought u didn't want one"
and then i blushed..
yes, i blushed..something that very rarely happen to me
and u know,
when i come home that night i try to hide it from my parents and family
coz i didn't want them to make a joke on me! ;p

and so many nice stories i had on v-day
i just wish i create many of them ahead...
now,
i just miss my family, friends and him :(

Cheers,
=)'che